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It was just a splatter!

(c) Dan Messenger, 2001 http://www.DanceTrends.org

Alrighty then.......I AM BACK! The coffee stains have been permanently removed from my key board. Actually, my keyboard was permanently removed from my laptop! I had to buy a new one. I was told by the computer tech at Comp USA to be happy that it wasn't the mother board. "You lose the mother board, you might as well start over", he says. "But it was just a splatter", I explain. He wanted to know how big the splatter was.

Geeez, let me play the moment back in my mind. I had just finished sending my last issue of Dance Trends and thought I would try to send a couple of e-mails before getting ready for work. I figured, now would be a good time to have a fresh hot cup of coffee, a little reward for getting such a creative wonderful newsletter on it's happy little way to you! (No comments on the creative, wonderful part... remember, this is free!) As I sit down to type, my coffee cup hits the edge of my mouse pad and a splatter of the java flies up into the air and onto my keyboard. There is that wonderful moment of silence. I am speechless...well, actually I do remember saying a few words but will spare you from that part of my little story. Beads of sweat now started to form just below my receding hair line, as I stared at my computer.

I swear the screen was staring back at me. "You idiot", it was saying. "Oo-oo, ahh, ahh, that's hot, that's hot! Why don't you stick to dancing and leave this computer stuff to the smart people, like your students"? I sat in silence for a moment before I ever so gently started to connect my fingers to the keyboard. Hey! It's working! Wheeew, that was close! " I'll show you close", said my Sony, %$$##@...///']][=##@|||||**)()()( !!!!!!!!!!!!! Never tempt the gods or your computer! I looked at the computer tech and said, "Does it really matter what the size of the splatter is? You're going to take it apart and then you can tell me what works and what doesn't". That was enough for him, he didn't want to hear anymore from an agitated customer who was obviously frustrated and desperate to get his computer back! End of story!

The best part of this whole experience was that it created the opportunity for DT readers to come up and rib me a little bit. "Hey Dan, you want a cup of coffee?" "When do you get your computer back"? But after the kidding was over, many of them would share some of their thoughts and ideas with me, which I greatly appreciated. Sometimes, when your sitting in front of the computer in the privacy of your hotel room or home office, and you're writing down what your thoughts are, you start to wonder, "Am I the only one who feels this way or sees it this way"? Sometimes I am, but most of the time when I am on the road, I am approached by several people...professionals, amateurs, organizers, and vendors, who have the same concerns that I have. This is what keeps me going. It is the fuel for my next newsletter. The suggestions, comments, jokes, and opinions I have received are appreciated! Dance Trends has hit almost 1,000 readers, because of recommendations from fellow dancers who like the format and who are maybe a bit curious about what a coach's or judge's point of view is, or what other readers may think.

So, I will continue to share my views on what I think is important for our industry to thrive and I hope you will take the time and share your opinions too. I receive several e-mails a week from people who have concerns about certain issues related to Dancesport...questions regarding everything from politics to dance etiquette. I respect and understand those who wish to remain anonymous but, at the same time, would like to encourage them to eventually come forward with their opinions. Why? Because many of the opinions and suggestions I have received are good ones from valuable people in the dance world. Why would anyone be afraid or uncomfortable giving their opinion? Maybe they are a competitor who thinks they will be looked upon unfavorably by a judge. Maybe an organizer of a competition does not want to cause waves with the NDCA, or, a student does not want to offend their teacher or studio.

But, how does an organization know what it's members are thinking if they are not sharing their opinions? I have written that I think all professionals should have a vote when electing officials in the NDCA. I have yet to meet one single person who does not share this same view with me. Yet, even though this is probably how the majority of the people who pay their dues feel, will it change? Only if people speak out. I love living in this country because I have the right to speak out. It is what this country was founded on. The freedom of speech. So, I will continue to write but, I might skip the coffee!
 
Dan Messenger
08-06-2001

 

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