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A Parent's Point of View

(c) Dan Messenger, 2001 http://www.DanceTrends.org

Greetings, fellow dancers! This week I would like to give my ever-so-humble opinion on this week's "question of the week", asked by the PDF (The Professional Dancer's Federation). I would like to thank the PDF for asking Dance Trends readers to give their input on several issues. I think it says a lot of an organization that it seeks opinions and viewpoints from a variety of people in their industry. Way to go, PDF! Ok, so here is the question:
 
Should the minimum age to be considered as a professional dancer/instructor be: 16 | 18 | Don't care
 
Recently, the NDCA changed the age requirement for professionals to sixteen. I will tell you right up front that I am totally against this change. Now, maybe it is because I am looking at this from the perspective of a parent. I have a sixteen year old son and two young daughters, who in a few years will be teenagers themselves. Yes, it is true that when a young adult turns sixteen, they are allowed to work full time in many businesses...but in a dance studio? Yes, there are always exceptions to the rule. For example, a possible exception could be made for teens who have parents who own a dance studio. I would assume that these teens would be under the guidance and protection of their parents. On the other hand, does the NDCA really want to be responsible for any wrong doing done to a young adult who is taken advantage of by a crooked studio owner? Do they really want to sanction a sixteen year old possibly being put in this position? There are many, many good people in this business, but there are also, just like any business, bad people looking to take advantage of kids who are not mature enough to handle themselves in an adult setting. There are many fine studios that have excellent programs for children. Although dancesport for kids is truly on the rise, most studios, overall, are for adults.

As a parent, I am responsible for my children until they are 18 years old. They are considered to be a minor until this age. That is the law in the United States. There is so much growing and changing that occurs between the ages of 16 and 18. At this age, kids are really transitioning between teenhood and adulthood. It is important that their experiences be appropriate for their age. It could be argued that many kids at this age are doing many of the things that adults are able to do, so why not just call them adults? They may have the body of an adult, they may smoke or drink, (or do any other behavior considered "adult like"). Frankly, if they choose to do these things, I would rather they did it with someone their own age rather than an older adult who is promising them the next world title! If children at this age are making these kinds of choices, I think they are being premature. Let's face it, a sixteen year old mind is no match for and adult mind. You and I both know that if an adult wanted to take advantage, they would have the edge. Let's turn back the hands of time. Remember when you were 16? Remember when you knew it all? If you think back, you may remember THINKING you knew it all at this age, only to mature and realize how young you were. I think children of this age still need adult protection. Does the NDCA really want this responsibility? I think that they may be opening the door for trouble by recognizing sixteen year olds as adults in a country that does not. All it will take is one, one kid taken advantage of. One parent upset because their child was taken advantage of.

So, what's the solution? I think the rule is too vague. How about a rule with some conditions? First of all, I think a parental consent form should be a must, at the very least. Remember, parents are still responsible at this age. If they give their full permission, the parent is acknowledging approval of their child's chosen profession. Are kids able to choose their profession at this age? Some definitely can, they know for sure that dancing will be their life. I understand that, I just think we have to be very careful of putting the label of "adult" on someone who is not quite there yet. At the very least, I think the National Dance Council of America should seek legal advice on the pros and cons of implementing such a rule.


Dan Messenger
05-21-2001

 

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